Do you ever look at your daughter and think, “She’s amazing—why can’t she see it?” You’re not alone. So many moms tell me their preteens are struggling with self-doubt, but they don’t know how to help.

Between school stress, social pressures, and constant comparison on social media, it’s no wonder our girls feel unsure of themselves. But here’s the thing: confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s a skill—one that can be built and nurtured.